Posted by admin on July 4, 2012
Classical instruments such as a violin, flute, guitars and trumpets can provide a splendid musical background on a wedding ceremony. However, no sound can equal that of a magical human voice expressed in a prayerful song at one of the most significant passage in a person’s life. Many church weddings have been made memorable by the performance of guest vocal musicians.
The use of “minus one” music machine to accompany the singer is neither an option. The canned music just lays to waste a perfectly planned church wedding and spoils the solemnity of the occasion.
In another perspective, the choice of the marital music must also be noteworthy. There are two schools of thought as to the type of music proper to a nuptial rite. One holds that only sacred music, which is composed specifically for religious functions, is fit. The other holds that any song, even pop music, done in a good taste, can be a valid expression and the right intent meant for the ceremony.
Church laws state in very general terms the type of music that is and is not permissible at a wedding. The premise is that the church is a place for praying to God and not for speaking to each other however devoted the couple may be to each other.
In like manner there are judgments that can evolve from coming up with questions and answers founded on a sense of propriety. And these are as follows:
The judgment on music must answer the question on whether the music is expressive of the moment… Is the song a fitting musical for the present ceremonial wedding scene… Is the choice of music right and proper taking into consideration the sanctity and serenity of the grounds of where the nuptial rite is taking place…
The judgment on liturgy must answer the question whether the lyrics of the song are fitting for such place of worship…Whether the congregation in attendance can relate in general towards the expression of love to the Almighty One and likewise the love bestowed from above to the couple as well as the whole community…
The judgment on ecclesiastics must answer whether the songs will form part of the Mass or just on the confirmation of the marriage bond, the nuptial blessing or the recessional….
Every couple has in mind to make the occasion unique. But, the actions must not go to the extent of debasing the sacrament of matrimony to satisfy the wants not in consonance with the Church teachings. Still, the norm and decrees of the church must be followed.