Posted by admin on July 10, 2012
The following are but some unsolicited advice on the budget and venue in the event that couple’s will encounter such thorny and sensitive issue. What matters most at the end of the day are that issues are resolved with both parties satisfaction in mind. It is both a win-win solution at hand.
Paying for a wedding
Question: “When confronted by the bride’s family regarding the expenses in the wedding arrangement, must the groom give its consent to pay all the bills incurred?”
Not too long ago, it is the groom and his family who shoulders almost all the expenses in a wedding arrangement. Unless the groom is financially rich, to give his consent in covering all the expenses in the wedding arrangement may be okay.
To be realistic, given the economics of the times, who pays the bill is a matter of previous agreement among the parties concerned. The present, the bride and the groom divide the expenses between themselves. The young generations of today are now financially capable and are financially independent as to their resources. They now take pains in the planning, implementing and paying for their own wedding.
The key to pulling off your dream wedding and starting a married life on the right foot is to set a realistic budget. And definitely not a budget based on borrowed money. Starting a married life in debt is not the best way to kick off. If you need to borrow money be sure there is a plan in place on how you will pay it back. Even though you have a credit card to charge it with, still keep track of your expenses in order for you to pay the bank. When it comes to wedding, budget is the most important element to consider.
Picking a Venue
Question: “Your future father –in- law wants to have the wedding ceremony and the reception in your bride’s locale. Must you consent to what he wishes for?”
This is a very sensitive matter that must be discussed with your partner to avoid any conflict in the end with your in-laws. The ideal spot for both families is to pick a location that is centrally located where the ceremonies and the reception can be undertaken. Focus the search on finding the venue that can accommodate comfortably all your guests and will match your wedding style. Once a decision has been made that fits your requirement, stick to it. Definitely this will come out to be a win- win situation to both sides as the site will not favor anyone as to the site’s proximity from one’s place of residence. A recommended spot is the St Pancratius Chapel or locally known as the Paco Park. It has both the chapel for your ceremony and a wide and spacious park for your reception. Just hope and pray that it’s a fair weather on your wedding day. As a tip, give a dozen eggs to the contemplative nuns of the Monasterio de Santa Clara in Quezon City and write to them a prayer request for a fair weather. It usually always works.